There's this negative karma energy going on currently. It's like putting people against each other in order to achieve a goal. I wouldn't call it back stabbing but it's not that much better. It's more like lies and make up stuffs and actually believing it to be true by some people.
Ego is such a scary thing. People die defending it. They just couldn't take the fact that sometime they could be wrong and changes are actually good. "You can't really stay inside your comfort zone forever". I actually got this saying from the person that is not leaving his comfort zone now. He always needed to go back to something he knows and won't accept the fact that there are different ways of doing the same thing. Not just his way. (I'm think I'm like rambling again)
Sometime I feel that I compromise myself abit too much and not really stand up to what I really wanted. I think I just hated confrontation. I've been to into a couple of them, but seems there is a feel of bitterness after it. I guess it's only human. And those that said "I love to have a good argument" are people who can't lose and have to have it their way. They are just trying to justify the fact that they can't accept different thinking by saying that argument is good. (Just my observations). hehehehe
Sugar coating stuffs is good. Who ever say it isn't and that just speak bluntly are so off! They said that because they don't know the art of communication. It's so easy to just be blunt and then ends it with "Please don't take it personality". That is so wrong, unless that person is professional to the extreme and have no feeling, there's absolutely NO WAY that they won't feel bad. There are always way to say the same thing nicely and make it more like a suggestion. Makes the other more open and less defensive and you actually get your point across.
When you are rude, even if you are right, the person is offended. Just because you are right, it doesn't mean you can be all rude and an asshole about it. Cos one day, you will make mistake and it's going to come back to you. I've been the mistake one, and also the right one. There's no need to take it to heart and make the others miserable. I'm still trying my best to not be an asshole sometime. Whenever I feel I'm becoming one, I think to myself "It's just a job, people make mistake, and I don't have to take this after 6" and repeat it till I lost my concentration. hehehee. But, if it's on a personal level (nothing job related), then I will hate you for life. And by hating, I mean like not talking to you, or won't rescue you if you are hanging off a cliff or something. (Actually I think I would, but after I saved you, I will still not talk to you). wkakakaka
You give out honey, you gets candy back. You give sour, you get sour~ Karma people!
*I love this puggy coin purse. It sugar coats all the 10/20/50 cents that are useless and evil!
